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I got the tires to slip with no luck.  Still stuck.  Where is the level on the side of the tranny.  Is it something I can get to from under the hood?  I need to first get it out of 4WD drive first then look into it more this weekend when I have time to bypass the solinoid.  Where is this "lever" and is it as easy as turning a switch.  Thanks everyone