Of course with this ongoing problem, I now try to avoid all hard stops, but sometimes it is unavoidable. That may be the problem, though. A hard stop in rush-hour traffic that you're stuck in. I also have ABS brakes, which I thought you were not supposed to pump, but keep them engaged. Frankly, I think I'd rather go buy a Toyota than pull over to park and let the brakes cool. This isn't a Model T! I'm not criticizing you....just think a car should be designed better. My Nissan, which I had for 11 years with 140,000 miles on it was driven in the same conditions and I never had this problem.