Thanks bjworth.
I want good handling, good road feel, cornering etc, low noise, good traction in rain and winter conditions. Gee sounds like I want it all. I rarely go off road, but do have occasion for gravely or snowy lousy roads once in a while.
My driving style is very conservative, but I want to have confidence with sticking to the road in any conditions. I've learned that tires that are good in winter (certainly winter-specific tires but also some all-season) are noisy. The tires I have now have gotten quite noisy over time, and it's very annoying and fatiguing on longer trips. I'm not so concerned with how long the tires last, as long as they perform really well for as long as they last. Of course if they do last, that's great too.
Thanks.