All -
Quite a bit late, but thought would post for future reference to anyone googling.
My issue was the gearing in the front of the transmission. Online the parts can be had, but limited by time (day job and family, can't afford to be without car for any time), turned oer to dealer. Cost was $1200, quite a bit more but got a newloaner car for the wife to drive and didn't need to give up my weekend (family happy).
So, anyone searching, all wheel drive subaru, noise and slight vibration from front end under power, goes away when coasting, no difference turning, check transmission.
Enjoy!