It kind of what i am looking to do, only a bit simpler. My car is a Japanese inport so it did get the obd2 plug and protocol. I have found a couple of sites that sort of have the right infomation, http://www.scoobymonitor.co.uk/ and http://kaele.com/~kashima/car/gc8-e.html .
I am sure there must be a way to make a connector so that I can program some software to talk to my ecu.