Alright guys, instead of waiting forever for the spectra brand I tried asking around to different parts stores. So while I happened to be on Amazon there was a suggestion/recomendation for the Subaru brand valve. It was 20 bucks more but I would get it in a few days and not have to wait a month and a half lol. So no I'm waiting for some warmer weather and gotta get a few more little things, hose clamps, nuts to hold the valve to the filler neck, maybe new rubber hoses.
So I have this guy: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00F3DSYTI/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 it's perfect!
And the filler neck: http://www.rockauto.com/catalog/moreinfo.php?pk=3522396&cc=1357354