1. Kids these days. Why, when I was a boy... I wasn't "a great kid". I was kind of an @sshole. My dad gave me a '64 Rambler Classic (287ci) that had a very funny story attached to it that I won't get into here. But it was safe because I was wrapped in so much Detroit iron that I could have spent a day on the demo derby track and the paint would barely have been scratched. It's long gone, but I'm (gradually) restoring another one now and plan to put an (AMC) 327 in. My ultimate goal is to find an old tube car radio for it. If I can, it'll get the vanity plate "EMP HARD".
2. When my girls turned 16 (just under four years ago), the plan was to give them the '99 Forester that a friend had given me (it had been his dad's and the AT was funky). I replaced the tranny and cleaned it up and it gave us great service for a few years, then a deer wiped it out. We got more insurance money for it than expected, so I got a really nice '02 Forester (blown motor, but all mod cons) for $500 from a country junkyard. Put in a new motor, got everything cleaned up and dialed in, and then a deer wiped it out - just prior to their birthday. So with the insurance money we got another Forester ('01) for about $500, and other than it getting a little banged up when a moose ran them off the road on the way to school (them, not the moose, and it sounds funny, but that's actually very serious sh!t), they're still driving it (though it's seen a HG job, and later a full engine rebuild (spun rod bearing)). They're also on their second ragtop Mustang, but I won't get into that other than to say we jam econo.
3. A few years ago I drove by a used car dealer that had one of those portable fluorescent-moveable-letters signs out by the road. It said "30 CARS UNDER $15,000!" I did the mental math and thought, "yeah, that's about right."
The moral of this story is: I'm really fsck'ing long-winded. No, not that, the other moral:
New drivers, regardless of how "good" they are, need cheap cars that'll take a beating and keep them as safe as possible. 4WD good. $13K USD bad. Turbo bad - I don't have (and haven't had) one, but I'm surrounded by horror stories. I'm with you - I think he should start out with something more modest... and learn to pull a wrench so that if he wants to "graduate" into something sportier later it won't be a money pit.