I had an awesome time with HP during the christmas tree run 05 and reiters pit cleanup.  brought my phews and the dog out.  the thing I noticed about HP is that they are more of a group of friends than a car club.  they invite other people, people they don't know, out to have fun with them.  please don't criticise the way HP does things, if they have a get together or camping trip thats open, they'll post an invite, and thats when I'll go.   
  
keep in mind, when you and your buddies have a bbq, inviting the neighborhood isn't a requirement. 
  
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