The oil leak could look worse then it really is, Most likely it is the Valve Covers and Oil pan which are leaking, then it blows all over from driving, and makes everything wet. Transmission pans are sealed with Fujibond (RTV style Sealant) so you could drop the pan whenever and reseal it with RTV Black (High-Heat Oil resistant) Same goes for the Oil pan, but that involves jacking the motor up to get at the rear most bolts.
Valve cover gaskets are easy.
As for the Steering rod thing, there is a Tie-Rod on each side of the car, the inner rod screws into the power steering rack, the inner rod has the Boot since there is a Balljoint inside which needs to pivot. The end that bolts to the wheel hub is your outer Rod, that screws to the inner rod and that is also how you adjust wheel Toe alignment. There is also a Balljoint on the outer end (Where it meets the hub) Having ripped Tierod boots are not a big deal, as long as there is no play in the joint, you are safe. If there is play, it is only a matter of time before it fails, jamming the wheel backwards and having no steering control on that side.
As for the FWD, that is surprising. All I can say.